Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,779 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/14/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 15 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 15 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 85 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
3 hours ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy Vixen (switchy/s) looking for Stag (D/Dd) etc., etc., etc.
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Daisychain09876
11 hours ago
38 [F4M] #SanDiego - BBW seeking AP
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in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by GraceGlow277
20 hours ago
19 [F4M] #LosAngeles - looking for a mature guy prolly above 30 that has the look of Jason Statham and is open to show me something new
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Jimmmy_t
1 day ago
23 [F4M] #LosAngeles - I'm looking for a quick chat and wanna get used
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Stock_Diver_7607
1 day ago
23 [F4M] #Northridge - let me raiiil you. It’ll be wonderful. You’ll love it.
F4M F4M
in Northridge, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Stock_Diver_7607
1 day ago
23 [F4M] #Northridge - let me plow you. It’ll be wonderful. You’ll love it.
F4M F4M
in Northridge, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by duckboi15525
1 day ago
23 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - i want to RAIL u
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by duckboi15525
1 day ago
23 [F4M] #Ontario - may i ownnn u??
F4M F4M
in Ontario, Canada
to r/SoCalR4R by Dontlook_Look
2 days ago
32 [f4m] #losAngeles - shy neurodivergent BBW looking for cute nerdy and sexually giving fwb
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Drama7224
2 days ago
25 [f4m] #temecula - Discreet Encounters with Married Men
F4M F4M
in Temecula, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by real90semo
2 days ago
29 [F4F] #HuntingtonBeach - looking for my pillow princess
F4F F4F
in Huntington Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sondervision
3 days ago
29 [F4M] #SFV - Distracted at Work
F4M F4M
in San Fernando Valley, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
3 days ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy Vixen (s) looking for Stag (D) etc., etc., etc.
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by RedDahliaMaryland
3 days ago
40 [F4M] #PalmSprings - BBW ISO fun nearby
F4M F4R
in Palm Springs, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Effervenascense
3 days ago
44 [F4M] #Tustin - lunch date
F4M F4M
in Tustin, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Drama7224
4 days ago
25 [F4M] #temecula - looking a STD-free FWB
F4M F4M
in Temecula, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Aware-Date-2109
5 days ago
19 [F4A] #Westwood - My needy goonette pussy is waiting :)
F4A F4R
in Westwood, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Effervenascense
5 days ago
40 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - looking for a dinner date for tomorrow -
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by NaturesCandy25
5 days ago
25 [F4M] #Fullerton - fuel my self loathing
F4M F4M
in Fullerton, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by xlovemywayx
6 days ago
36 [F4M] #Fullerton - Anyone like a nice age gap?
F4M F4M
in Fullerton, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymomma01
1 week ago
37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Secretly dirty minded seeking true partner in the area
F4M F4M
in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Level_Penalty_4406
1 week ago
25 [F4M] #ManhattanBeach - Looking for a BI Female for a 4some tonight!
F4M F4M
in Manhattan Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by fokkinchucky
1 week ago
31 [F4M] #IE - chubby4muscles
F4M F4M
in Inland Empire, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by fi1111
1 week ago
28 [F4M] #LosAngeles - tomboy looking for fit guy
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
1 week ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy Vixen (s) looking for Stag (D) etc., etc., etc.
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA