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r/SoCalR4R
140,035 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/28/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 5 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 5 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 34 posts
By 34 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
Electrical_Kick_2634
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
5 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
145
Link Karma
112
Comment Karma
33
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 3 weeks ago
ElChorizoGuey
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
324
Link Karma
90
Comment Karma
234
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
Theweddingfunker
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
106
Link Karma
42
Comment Karma
64
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
DemandNo6410
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
32
Link Karma
28
Comment Karma
4
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Kingcrims0n__
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
3 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
115
Link Karma
52
Comment Karma
63
Profile updated: 3 hours ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
711skincare
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
452
Link Karma
121
Comment Karma
331
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
reddragon879
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
99
Link Karma
51
Comment Karma
11
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 8 hours ago
sphericalmess
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
147
Link Karma
14
Comment Karma
133
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 22 hours ago
bittersweetswiss
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
56
Link Karma
16
Comment Karma
40
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Cali4fun22
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
167
Link Karma
80
Comment Karma
87
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Kick_2634
7 hours ago
19 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Middle Eastern in search of FIT Asian/White/Latino handsome men
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DemandNo6410
23 hours ago
23 [F4M] #LosAngeles - ulike Latinnas?
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DemandNo6410
23 hours ago
23 [F4M] #Orange - you like being plowed? U LIKE LATTINAZZ
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by DemandNo6410
1 day ago
23 [F4M] #Orange - you like being plowed? Or what are you into?
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by PatientConfusion6341
1 day ago
22 [F4M] #Riverside - looking for a consistent fwb that knows what they’re doing
F4M F4M
in Riverside, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by LilMiss_me
1 day ago
18 [F4M] #Pasadena - Inexperienced but looking for FWB
F4M F4M
in Pasadena, Ca
to r/SoCalR4R by lindaleighsd
1 day ago
50 [F4MM] #Malibu - Looking for Monday Funday!
F4MM Couples
in Mali
to r/SoCalR4R by Puzzleheaded-Bag5437
2 days ago
41 [F4MM] #LosAngeles - Looking for you and that friend of yours
F4MM F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by maxintensity
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by 28wildflowers
2 days ago
24 [F4R] #pomona - any Halloween parties this weekend? 🎃👻
F4R Platonic
in Pomona, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Junior-Arm8069
3 days ago
44 [F4M] #Orange - orally fixated busty female looking to travel
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by NymphoNerd13
3 days ago
29 [F4M] #Burbank - No choice but to enjoy
F4M F4M
in Burbank, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
3 days ago
37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Secretly filthy minded seeking true partner
F4M F4M
in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Training_Wolf5028
4 days ago
30 [F4R] #SouthBay - Free for a lazy night in tn?
F4R F4R
in South Bay, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
5 days ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le daddy (edited)
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
5 days ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le daddy (edited)
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
5 days ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le daddy (edited)
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sweetmm24
5 days ago
21 [F4A] #Torrance - Tina Bobs Burgers Figurine
F4A F4R
in Torrance, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by scjockid
6 days ago
33 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking for a fun new friend? Let’s meet up! MILF in Valley
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
1 week ago
37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Responsible with extremely filthy mind kept hidden seeking partner
F4M F4M
in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by prettehkitteh_
1 week ago
29 [F4M] #losangeles - fwb
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Training_Wolf5028
1 week ago
30 [F4R] #LosAngeles - (South Bay) Help me explore my kinks and be my FWB
F4R F4R
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
1 week ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le daddy
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
1 week ago
37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Secretly VERY dirty minded seeking a true partner
F4M F4M
in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Effervenascense
1 week ago
44 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - Friday Lunch?
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA