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r/SoCalR4R
139,940 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/23/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 2 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 2 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 43 posts
By 43 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
skylinisahoe
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
9 months
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,090
Link Karma
1,078
Comment Karma
12
Profile updated: 6 hours ago
Posts updated: 20 hours ago
ollie_oxenfr33
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,108
Link Karma
86
Comment Karma
1,022
Profile updated: 2 days ago
Posts updated: 2 days ago
HomeyKrogerSage
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
292
Link Karma
20
Comment Karma
272
Profile updated: 22 hours ago
socalbro4fun
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
124
Link Karma
95
Comment Karma
29
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
Deep-Watch-2688
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
15,016
Link Karma
11,954
Comment Karma
3,047
Profile updated: 39 minutes ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
LBCGHSissy
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
4 months
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
241
Link Karma
113
Comment Karma
128
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
No_Definition_3174
Account Strength
30%
Account Age
2 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
34
Link Karma
10
Comment Karma
24
Profile updated: 23 hours ago
nicemike69
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
3 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
41
Link Karma
25
Comment Karma
16
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 1 week ago
kinkyboy7
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
4 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,401
Link Karma
181
Comment Karma
1,202
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 12 hours ago
social_disease
Account Strength
90%
Account Age
9 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
2,909
Link Karma
1,107
Comment Karma
1,802
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by scjockid
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalcoffeebean
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27 [F4M] #LosAngeles - I need a married man to lick my pussy
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
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37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Responsible with extremely filthy mind kept hidden seeking partner
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to r/SoCalR4R by prettehkitteh_
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29 [F4M] #losangeles - fwb
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Training_Wolf5028
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30 [F4R] #LosAngeles - (South Bay) Help me explore my kinks and be my FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
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33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le daddy
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
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37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Secretly VERY dirty minded seeking a true partner
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in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Effervenascense
6 days ago
44 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - Friday Lunch?
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by maxintensity
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35 [F4M] #LosAngeles - New and Looking
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by lowerbaby78
1 week ago
27 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Up for some fun
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by prettehkitteh_
1 week ago
29 [F4M] #losangeles - fwb w/ bwc
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
1 week ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy Vixen (switchy/s) looking for Stag (D/Dd) etc., etc., etc.
F4M F4M
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to r/SoCalR4R by Daisychain09876
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38 [F4M] #SanDiego - BBW seeking AP
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in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Jimmmy_t
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23 [F4M] #LosAngeles - I'm looking for a quick chat and wanna get used
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to r/SoCalR4R by duckboi15525
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23 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - i want to RAIL u
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in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by duckboi15525
1 week ago
23 [F4M] #Ontario - may i ownnn u??
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in Ontario, Canada
to r/SoCalR4R by Dontlook_Look
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32 [f4m] #losAngeles - shy neurodivergent BBW looking for cute nerdy and sexually giving fwb
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Drama7224
1 week ago
25 [f4m] #temecula - Discreet Encounters with Married Men
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in Temecula, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by real90semo
1 week ago
29 [F4F] #HuntingtonBeach - looking for my pillow princess
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in Huntington Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sondervision
1 week ago
29 [F4M] #SFV - Distracted at Work
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in San Fernando Valley, CA