Updated specific locations to be searchable, take a look at Las Vegas as an example.
Southern California
r/SoCalR4R
139,390 subscribers
R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/02/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 4 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 11 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 11 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 6 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 1 month ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 82 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

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to r/SoCalR4R by BellaNova93
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19 [F4M] #SD - wanna hangout
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to r/SoCalR4R by darkmoonjelly
19 hours ago
18 [F4M] #JurupaValley - Spooky season is coming up anyone want to hang out
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27 [f4m] #sgv - wanna hangout
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to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Drama7224
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25 [F4MF] #temecula - looking for a few consistent things…
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to r/SoCalR4R by BiFi_Password
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35 [F4R] #LongBeach - Cocktails and conversation
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to r/SoCalR4R by maxintensity
2 days ago
35 [F4M] #LosAngeles - New to town and seeing what’s out there…
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to r/SoCalR4R by LadybugCoffeepot
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59 [F4M] #SouthBay - seeking … Romance
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to r/SoCalR4R by asc-rocket
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23 [F4M] #LosAngeles - u like Dommmes Or LATTINASS? I’d peewg u goood
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to r/SoCalR4R by dazed-
3 days ago
26 [F4R] #DTLA - looking for magic, jk, let's chat whateverz
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to r/SoCalR4R by No_Engine_720
3 days ago
24 [F4M] #HighlandPark - im thick and looking to chat
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to r/SoCalR4R by RavenSyrena
3 days ago
31 [F4M] #WestHollywood - Late night fun tonight
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to r/SoCalR4R by part-timemilf
4 days ago
47 [F4M] #HighlandPark - Bar Quickie Tonight!
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to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Drama7224
4 days ago
25 [F4M] #temecula - Looking for bbc threesome
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to r/SoCalR4R by xMayaxVerasx
4 days ago
28 [F4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a friend and cupcake
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to r/SoCalR4R by spoooky_baabe
4 days ago
31 [F4F] #Claremont - looking for a cute girl to play with -
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to r/SoCalR4R by browneyedbabyyyy
4 days ago
30 [F4M] #SanDiego - slow burn ?
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to r/SoCalR4R by bee_snow
4 days ago
23 [F4A] #online - looking for new gaming friends :)
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to r/SoCalR4R by finbaf
4 days ago
20 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Looking for new people
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to r/SoCalR4R by Munro_B
5 days ago
27 [F4M] #WestHollywood - I'm in town 9/27-9-28
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to r/SoCalR4R by darkmoonjelly
5 days ago
18 [F4F] #JurupaValley - Are there any real women on these subreddits lol
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to r/SoCalR4R by bebopcowgirl
5 days ago
30 [F4M] #SanDiego - Fun tonight
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to r/SoCalR4R by CharmingHazel
5 days ago
21 [F4M] #LosAngeles - going to be in LA soon and looking for fun
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to r/SoCalR4R by bananaicedmilk
1 week ago
24 [F4A] #Orange - seeking connections
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to r/SoCalR4R by Secret-Olive7531
1 week ago
28 [F4M] #LA - Witty banter leading to FWB
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to r/SoCalR4R by 28wildflowers
1 week ago
23 [F4R] #Pomona - cute thicc girl needs birthday friends 😭
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