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r/SoCalR4R
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R4R - The Southern California edition

Whether you're seeking platonic friends, non-platonic friends, online gaming partners, soulmates, travel mates, ride shares, hikers, concert partners, clubs, explorers, exercise pals, political rallies, entrepreneurs, smoking buddies, groups to join, activity partners, friends with benefits [fwb] / casual encounters, etc. This is the place on Reddit to find and seek.

For Los Angeles, Orange County, San Diego, and surrounding areas

SoCalR4R Moderators

Last updated: 10/22/2024
• throwitalloutla added 6 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/socalr4rverified)
• PotatoWedges added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• ModeratelyHelpfulBot added 5 years ago (also mods r/GFDpersonals, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/latinas, r/Hotwife, r/boobs, and 195 more...)
• wutwutindabuttbutt added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• XanderAquinas added 5 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• FunInSanDiego added 3 years ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfBlowJob, r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/CuckqueanCommunity, r/socalr4rverified, r/SanDiegoR4R)
• anthongy added 3 years ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified, r/Socalswingers)
• BlueC0NVERSE added 2 years ago (also mods r/gonewild, r/TexasGW, r/GirlsinLaceFishnets, r/classysexy, r/BigBoobsGonewild, and 5 more...)
• XOTIC10 added 1 year ago and removed 7 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• lilhotcheeto added 1 year ago and removed 7 hours ago (also mods r/socalr4rverified)
• RedCheeksGuy added 7 months ago (also mods r/RandomActsOfMuffDive, r/RandomActsOfBlowJob)
• hive-protect added 2 months ago (also mods r/OhioHookups, r/Floridar4r, r/Jacksonviller4r, r/Bulges, r/Precum, and 88 more...)

SoCalR4R Rules

Last updated: 08/20/2024
• Verification Required

Effective 12/07/20, all users must be verified in order to post in this subreddit. If you are not verified, your post will be deleted.

• Title Format

"Age [X4X] #City - Title"

• Posting Requirements

Accounts must be more than 72 hours old.

All users must have at least 10 Post AND 10 Comment Karma to post or comment.

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• Post Limit

All users are limited to one post per day even if you have verified multiple accounts.

• NSFW Flair

This community is set as a NSFW subreddit, so all posts are automatically tagged as NSFW.

• No Identifying Information

No personal information such as social media, Snapchat, Kik usernames, or phone numbers are allowed in posts or comments. These must be exclusively shared through chat or PMs.

• Absolutely No Exchanging Money/Sex For Any Legal/Illegal Content, Services, Objects, and/or Yourself

This includes OnlyFans, premium Snapchat, findom, and sugaring. Infractions will be immediately deleted, and the poster will be permabanned. This includes those that do not explicitly state it in their posts and/or on their profiles.

• No Advertising

Advertisement of any type of event, service, chat room, or content is not allowed in posts or users' profiles.

• No Illegal Activities

This includes drugs, prostitution, etc.

• Harassment

There is absolutely zero tolerance for harassing other users or inciting violence. Just be a decent human being. It's really not that hard.

• "Messaged u"

Stop commenting this shit on people's posts. They already know.

• Reporting A User

If you are reporting another user for being a scammer, picture collector, fake, etc., you must message the modmail or one of the moderators individually and have some proof (screenshots). We cannot do anything if we can't follow up with the person who made the report.

• 18+ Only

This is an 18+ community only.

• Catfish/Scammer

If you have proof that someone is catfishing/scamming, take a screenshot and send it to the mod team via modmail.

In the last day...
There have been 31 posts
By 31 authors
Top authors today @ r/SoCalR4R
jonewaste
Account Strength
60%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,778
Link Karma
1,671
Comment Karma
107
Profile updated: 3 days ago
PNWMassageHands
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
3,966
Link Karma
3,882
Comment Karma
29
Profile updated: 16 hours ago
Posts updated: 16 hours ago
republiccityblue
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
1 year
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
369
Link Karma
311
Comment Karma
58
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 1 day ago
WildSideOC
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
8 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
363
Link Karma
152
Comment Karma
211
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 4 hours ago
roadtoriches
Account Strength
70%
Account Age
11 years
Verified Email
No
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
1,000
Link Karma
574
Comment Karma
426
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 5 days ago
illtryanythingoncee
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
5 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
356
Link Karma
92
Comment Karma
264
Profile updated: 3 days ago
Posts updated: 1 year ago
ElChorizoGuey
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
322
Link Karma
88
Comment Karma
234
Profile updated: 4 days ago
Posts updated: 4 days ago
socalcumm
Account Strength
50%
Account Age
1 month
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
518
Link Karma
509
Comment Karma
9
Profile updated: 1 day ago
Posts updated: 5 hours ago
ThrowAwayNickDTLA
Account Strength
100%
Account Age
2 years
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
Yes
Total Karma
143
Link Karma
96
Comment Karma
47
Profile updated: 6 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
Kingcrims0n__
Account Strength
40%
Account Age
2 weeks
Verified Email
Yes
Verified Flair
No
Total Karma
40
Link Karma
26
Comment Karma
14
Profile updated: 5 days ago
Posts updated: 3 days ago
 
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to r/SoCalR4R by jonewaste
4 hours ago
40 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Just seeing what's out there
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by scjockid
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to r/SoCalR4R by ladystardusttttttt
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to r/SoCalR4R by socalcoffeebean
3 days ago
27 [F4M] #LosAngeles - I need a married man to lick my pussy
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in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
3 days ago
37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Responsible with extremely filthy mind kept hidden seeking partner
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in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by prettehkitteh_
3 days ago
29 [F4M] #losangeles - fwb
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Training_Wolf5028
3 days ago
30 [F4R] #LosAngeles - (South Bay) Help me explore my kinks and be my FWB
F4R F4R
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
4 days ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy switchy sub looking for le daddy
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by theknottymommaca01
4 days ago
37 [F4M] #LongBeach - Secretly VERY dirty minded seeking a true partner
F4M F4M
in Long Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Effervenascense
4 days ago
44 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - Friday Lunch?
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by maxintensity
5 days ago
35 [F4M] #LosAngeles - New and Looking
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by lowerbaby78
6 days ago
27 [F4M] #LosAngeles - Up for some fun
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by prettehkitteh_
6 days ago
29 [F4M] #losangeles - fwb w/ bwc
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
1 week ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy Vixen (switchy/s) looking for Stag (D/Dd) etc., etc., etc.
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Daisychain09876
1 week ago
38 [F4M] #SanDiego - BBW seeking AP
F4M F4M
in San Diego, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Jimmmy_t
1 week ago
23 [F4M] #LosAngeles - I'm looking for a quick chat and wanna get used
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by duckboi15525
1 week ago
23 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - i want to RAIL u
F4M F4M
in Orange County, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by duckboi15525
1 week ago
23 [F4M] #Ontario - may i ownnn u??
F4M F4M
in Ontario, Canada
to r/SoCalR4R by Dontlook_Look
1 week ago
32 [f4m] #losAngeles - shy neurodivergent BBW looking for cute nerdy and sexually giving fwb
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Electrical_Drama7224
1 week ago
25 [f4m] #temecula - Discreet Encounters with Married Men
F4M F4M
in Temecula, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by real90semo
1 week ago
29 [F4F] #HuntingtonBeach - looking for my pillow princess
F4F F4F
in Huntington Beach, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by sondervision
1 week ago
29 [F4M] #SFV - Distracted at Work
F4M F4M
in San Fernando Valley, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by ollie_oxenfr33
1 week ago
33 [f4M] #LosAngeles - Curvy Vixen (s) looking for Stag (D) etc., etc., etc.
F4M F4M
in Los Angeles, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by RedDahliaMaryland
1 week ago
40 [F4M] #PalmSprings - BBW ISO fun nearby
F4M F4R
in Palm Springs, CA
to r/SoCalR4R by Effervenascense
1 week ago
44 [F4M] #Tustin - lunch date
F4M F4M
in Tustin, CA