It’s apparently impossible for me to write short posts, but how can you be short on words when talking about finding a soulmate!? The whole prospect is exciting. There’s nothing more meaningful in life than love and beauty, and I intend to find both. Whether I have to go to the ends of the Earth to find you or just a few miles down the street, I will find you. So grab yourself a cup of cocoa and sit down for a long read to see if you’re the lady I’ve been searching for all this time.

Let me preface this by saying that I'm looking for an LTR. And that I'm currently in an open relationship (she's actually encouraged me to post). And while I am not wholly sure what the ideal nature of things would be: a happy trio, something sisterly, just friends, or something altogether different, I am willing to take things as they come and work hard to make things work. In fact I would move mountains for this, so distance, personal situations, or anything else are just a hurdle to overcome on the path.

I’m in my mid-thirties, I come from a small town in the middle of nowhere New England, but have lived in several cities big and small throughout the US. Currently living in Riverside, CA but not overly fond of it. I’ve got a super smart kid who lives in another state. I’m a Libra and it shows. Slept through classes and got A’s, couldn’t figure out what to do for a living and eventually went to college for “anything at all” just to have done something, so I left college with a software engineering degree.

I’m a jack of all trades. Part mechanic, part electronics repairman (even microscope soldering), part handyman, part computer programmer, and who knows what else. Honestly I can pick up just about anything if you give me a bit of time to study and muck around with it. Been making my way the past many years as a property manager, running a vintage electronics repair business, and trading the stock market.

Lately I’ve been soul-searching a bit and figuring out where to go from here. I’ve largely focused on finding my lady, but it’s time to work on other things as well. I will likely go for my Masters in Data Science in the fall, and in the mean-time I’m aiming to sit for my first 3 actuarial exams (Yay MATH) and start down that path. I want little more than to own a house with a pool and have a lovely lady to swim in it with, and both paths will more than afford that. Spent the last couple years becoming (nearly) debt-free and finding my way to supremely good credit.

I’m a bit of a homebody but not opposed to going out. Keep a few aquariums going, including a saltwater tank (ready for corals soon I hope), have a pair of cute kitties, enjoy binge-watching garbage TV shows, play a few video games (honestly collect far more than I play nowadays). I used to play piano and keep meaning to get back to it but am lacking the motivation to. Love road trips, and want to go see all the national parks one day. Spent a few days going through the ones in mid-CA and omigosh is Big Sur the most gorgeous place I’ve ever seen. Even found a perfect little mountain town to disappear in. Maybe we can cross all the parks off the list together!

Love languages are an important aspect of a relationship, as much as the term makes me want to roll my eyes, so a bit about mine. I tend to put a lot of effort into things I can do for my partner. Bringing them places that make them light up with joy, fixing things for them, rubbing sore shoulders, anything I can do to make your life better. I just want to help so badly. With EVERYTHING! As far as feeling loved is concerned, the big ones are spending time together/touching (I am a world-renown hand-holder and cuddler). Even more importantly is my partner dressing up for me, sending me pictures, etc. I think that’s the most endearing and sweet thing one can do for me.

We’ve talked of love, but let’s talk about beauty. I’m enamored with it, and I want to be enamored with yours! I want someone who not only cares about their appearance but wants to perfect it. Gym, yoga, make-up, corsetry, lip injections, plastic surgery, all in the plan. I’m undoubtedly looking for someone with model/dancer/SW sort of aspirations (either in their entirety or just in appearance). A life lived in lingerie, bikinis, and slinky dresses. I want to spend life chasing the evolution of your beauty over the years, capturing it on film and sharing it with the world. The most exciting journey possible.

Not just enamored with beauty itself either, but I adore everything that goes with it! All of the clothes, shoes, baubles and beads. Make-up and nails. All the little things that amplify your beauty. And of course there’s the intimacy that comes with it all; zipping up your dress, clasping your bra shut, brushing your hair. Things to live for.

I’ve largely left sex out of this because I don’t want my love and desire for beauty to be misconstrued as lust. I do however have a near insatiable drive, am very giving in bed, and open and interested in all sorts of fun and kinky things!

I’m sure there are a thousand more things I could tell you about myself, and I want to, just as much as I want to learn everything there is to know about you, but this has gone on long enough for a post on Reddit and it’s time to draw to a close. So if you’ve read this far, and you’re still interested, please message me. No matter who you are, please message. I’ve been dying to hear from you.