Iām a widow(er though widower sounds dumb to me), and after a metric ton of therapy and the encouragement of some friends I recently got on dating apps to āget back out thereā. And man I donāt know if itās because Iāve been so removed from it, or if Iām just not caught up with the times, or if itās an age thing, but dating is hard.
Ultimately Iām looking for a slow burn, something that starts out as a friendship and goes from there.
Iām a pretty big self proclaimed nerd with a decent amount of hobbies that include: - Film Photography - Hiking (for cool landscapes that I can take film photos of) - Rock climbing (though after a hiatus Iām getting back into it) - Building Lego and/or Gundam, Iāve got a backlog of each - Cars, recently bought my dream car so driving around, working on itā¦and taking photos of it. - D&D - Gaming on occasion - Reading, i just started The Third Body Problem
A little more about me: Im a freelance photographer and videographer, so chances are Iāve always got a camera on me. Going out and trying new food spots sounds just as fun as staying in and binging a show. Im 5ā7, so not very tall, Hispanic, different colored eyes and what I think is a great sense of humor, Iāll probably laugh at all your jokes unless theyāre genuinely terrible.
I have a dog, a white Siberian Husky with a ton of personality, so as much as I try to lint roll myself, Iāll probably have some of his hairs on me.
I also have a son, heās just a baby though so Iām not having him meet anyone Iāve dated, and probably wonāt until itās serious.
Not really sure what else to put. If youāve made it this far, thanks for reading!
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