Last year I discovered the woman I'd been with for many years, and who I thought I'd be with for the rest of my life, had cheated on me with at least nine other men, many more if you count the ones she talked to online but hadn't met (yet). I haven't worked through the resulting trust issues enough to want to get emotionally involved with someone new, but that doesn't change the fact that I'm still a dirty(-minded) old man whose sex drive is just as strong as it was when I was young. So while most of my life I've been the kind of guy who puts my partner's pleasure first, right now I just want to find a woman who wants to be used as a play toy.

I'm not a sadist so I have no interest in seriously hurting you, and I'm not into BDSM so I'm not looking to tie you up like some kind of art exhibit. I just want to use you to satisfy my lust. Oh, and I'm not a complete asshole either, so we'll discuss limits and I'll respect yours.

I'm a 55 year old white man, average height, a bit chubby but working on it, hazel eyes, dark hair starting to go salt and pepper, and a big bald spot. Yes, I'm being honest here. That's important to me and I hope you'll do me the courtesy of being honest in return. I'm clean, STD free, and vaccinated. I don't smoke or use drugs. The fallout from last year has left me in a living situation I wouldn't have chosen so I cannot host due to issues with my housemate, but I'll be happy to drive a reasonable distance to you if we decide to meet.

As for you, I don't care much about things like your age, race, or body type. All I ask is that you be clean and STD free, biologically female, not a complete waste case hard drug user, and have a positive or even enthusiastic attitude about sex.

If this sounds interesting I'd love to hear from you. Please tell me a little bit about yourself and what city you're in. We can talk from there and see if we want to take it further.