I'm looking to build a friendship with someone. It's a difficult thing to do online and specially in person since I experience social anxiety, so I hope to meet people I can truly connect with. A goal of mine is to have us eventually meet in person and the closer you are to my location, the better. Being able to spend time in person will be a whole lot better than just doing activities online specially when we're both close enough to not worry about travel time.
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Mind my availability. I'm mostly free after 11 pm or 12 am during weekdays since I work the second half of the day, but my weekends are pretty free. If we're unable to properly chat around my availability, then it'll be more difficult to get to know each other. But even with that schedule, it doesn't mean I can't text here and there during work hours. Just depends on how busy it is at work.
Heads up that for the highly energetic and talkative people. I will eventually not be able to keep up and lose the conversation -- being stuck on "listen mode." I can't do this. Don't take this personally, I just don't have the energy to keep up with this type of interaction.
For communication, we can start here by you sending a message or starting a chat (preferably). From there on, I'd prefer for us to jump on Discord only. I don't and won't use any other apps for chatting.
Be absolutely fine with doing voice calls from time to time since this gives us a better feel than trying to interpret each other's tone through text. If you can't do voice calls, then I'd rather not continue since this is highly important to me. This doesn't mean this is all we'll be doing as I do have a social battery, too.
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With that said, I'm an easy-going guy. I tend to prefer simpler conversations like talking about our day, things we've recently enjoyed, or things that bother us. I am an affectionate person in the right circumstances, while also sarcastic and loud if comfortable enough with the person. See it as a sign that I enjoy my time with you. I try to communicate what I think and feel as much as I can, and hope we can establish this in order to be on the same page to prevent possible issues. Beyond this, just ask me as many questions as you want once we actually begin talking. I'd rather have us learn about each other through conversation than a post with a list of my "likes" and "dislikes."
I'll leave it at that. I hope to hear from you. :)
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