Sure, finding a soulmate sounds great. A ying to our yang. The left Twix to our right Twix.
But let me tell you, it Is E-X-H-A-U-S-T-I-N-G work trying to find magic out here. I know, I know, "Nothing worth doing is easy", and we hear you. But there's a lot to be said for all sorts of relationship dynamics. It doesn't always have to be soulmate or nothing. So explore this idea with us for a minute or ten.
We've seen a ton of really successful and happy folks who are in far more transactional relationships. No, not THAT kind of transaction. But a structured give-and-take between the parties involved can evolve into a really strong bond.
So let's just be up front with one another. Because we all have things we need or want from a partner, and maybe we can fulfill your needs, and you can fulfill ours.
Be imaginative. If your life would feel complete having a partner who helps you train to be the best juggling unicyclist in the tri-state area, then tell us!
Be pragmatic. Maybe you just seek comfort and security, knowledge that there are people here who care for you and will take care of you, then just say so.
Most importantly, just be honest. Tell us what you need in a relationship.
Are you willing to meet our needs in exchange for our meeting yours? Let's chat and see if we're fit for one another.
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