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Hello SoCalR4R,
It's been awhile. A long while, actually. To be upfront about things - I've become physically disabled recently, dealt with multiple traumas, am still navigating getting the care necessary for my disabling mental illnesses, and am not really okay for the most part. But, I am actively trying to both come go terms with chronic pain and illness (and mortality as a byproduct) while also preparing myself and my service dog for a future.
Here are my absolute limitations: Long car drives, heat exposure (my body can no longer regulate my internal temperature naturally), verbal speech all of the time (selective mutism and use ASL, writing, and text as substitutes), rigorous physical activity, and unacceptable of my service dog being a packaged deal that I literally cannot go out without.
What I'm doing to be proactive about my health and life: Have already dealt with my college and spoken to the right professors and heads of departments to hopefully go back this fall to continue with my ASL interpreting certification and degree, plan to finish my pilates certification while there, pursuing disability/SSI, attending all appointments and testing, specialized trauma therapy, exposure therapy, focusing on myself and Odin, isolated myself from toxic people. And more!
What I'm looking for: Truthfully, I don't know. People to talk to and text with. People who would like to read books and talk about them together. People who will understand that I don't go out much at all. People who understand that I am sober except for the medications I'm prescribed. No one with children as I have sensory issues. Someone who loves dogs. I dunno. I just want to see what's out there, I guess. Preferably you live nearby and I will not drive to LA. Sorry. It's just too stressful every time.
Academic interests: all genres of anthropology (but forensics and religions were my favorite, ASL & Deaf culture/history, abnormal psychology, criminology, religious studies.
Non-academic: Serial killers/mass murderers, oddities collecting and creating, podcasts, music (my ex used to call me the human jukebox because I always had a song for every moment), morbid/dark art collecting, neo-paganism, body modifications, cooking, dogs, karaoke, canine psychology/nutrition.
Hobbies: Skull and bone collecting and art, crystal art, jewelry making, writing, making too many Amazon purchases, cooking, baking gourmet dog treats and cakes, cuddling with my dog, budget shopping, obsessively collecting skincare items, fucking my hair up.
Odins birthday is on the 12th (he will be 3) and I haven't figured out what we are gonna do yet.
You should message me if: you are between the ages of 28&39, live close by, can hold a conversation, understand my limitations, also need support and encouragement, love dogs, don't have children, don't mind random texts at any time of day or night about random things I read online or randomly think of, understand that this is #STRICTLYPLATONIC, so #NO I do not want to have sex with you, your partner, anyone.
To weed out the lames, make sure to include actual shit about you and give me a genre of music you want to hear and either a situation or feeling you want the song to be about. I need the challenge.
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