I know that this is somewhat unusual, but it’s worth a shot if I can find a guy out there who is a perfect fit for what I’m looking for. A little background on us: We’ve been together for 20 years and our sex life is as good as ever (if not better than ever!) Over the years, we have had sexual relationships with other people (at times together and at times on our own) and we have found that it keeps our own sex life together fresh and exciting just to have the freedom to pursue our sexual desires elsewhere (even if we don’t do it all of the time.) As it tends to happen around this time of year, we were reflecting on our year together and looking forward to the next and he asked me if there is anything that I have been longing for (in terms of unfulfilled fantasies) and I realized that what would please me more than anything would be to find a man for him to hang out with regularly. We are both bisexual, although I would say that my husband is better described as “curious” (even though he does have experience with men) because his bisexual fantasies have been stronger than his actual real-life attractions to other men. This is understandable to me, since so many men are just looking to get off in any way that they can and have no interest in finding any other kind of meaningful connection (and in a lot of cases, I would say that they even have an outright fear of making a meaningful connection!) I believe that if he could meet a guy who was open enough to be a real human and actually hang out and enjoy a conversation, spend some time getting to know one another and build trust (the basic tenets of friendship) and find some level of attraction on a physical, intellectual and emotional level...well, if he could find that, I suspect that the fantasies that he has about being with a man could actually become a reality and (dare I say) he might even find the guy who will be the best fuck of his life!

My husband has always loved my ass and I have come to genuinely love it, too, simply because of how incredibly turned-on he is whenever he gets a chance to lick and suck on my asshole and plunge his tongue as deep as he can and then lick and suck it some more. Whenever we are making out, I can feel the way his hands grab my butt cheeks and spread them apart suggestively and I know how much it excites him just to think about my asshole being exposed. When I slide down on his cock, I can feel how much harder it gets when he licks his finger and starts to tickle my asshole while I’m riding him. It turns me on just knowing that every single time we fuck, he is hoping that he will get to fuck my asshole and cum in my mouth. Knowing how badly he wants it, I often ask him if he would like to fuck my asshole deep and slow and I absolutely love feeling how wonderfully hard his cock is, throbbing and pulsating on the edge of orgasm as he slowly and steadily slides it all the way in and back out again and again, trying to hold out long enough for me to cum with my asshole gripping and convulsing on his strong, hard cock. Once I cum, he almost always loses his ability to hold off any longer and he will either cum deep inside of my asshole or pull out and cum in my mouth. It is such a wonderful feeling to be on the receiving end of all of that sexual energy! It’s so fantastically dirty and I feel like such a slut, but he also fucks me so sweetly and deeply, it is just fulfilling on so many levels.

And that’s what I would like for him...to feel what it is like to have a man always wanting to lick and suck and fuck his asshole and cum in his mouth and just make him feel like a dirty slut. In a perfect world, this man would also want to fuck me and he could become someone we could share, but when I’ve tried to find this in the past, the guys who respond always seem to be “willing” to fuck my husband if it means that they get to fuck me :( I think that this is the reason that his real-life experiences with men have always fallen short of his fantasies - because it is a very different feeling to be fucked by someone who is insatiably horny for you than it is to be fucked by someone who is merely “willing” to fuck you. So, this time, I’m trying to find someone who will be focused on him (and if it works out, perhaps will also be interested in me) and we will have a boyfriend that we share :)

If you've made it this far and you're thinking this might be something that you could be into, congratulations...you're our kind of pervert! Please say "hello" and tell us more :) And I’m sure that we’ll get lots of responses from guys who are interested in getting their rocks off with no effort (“wham, bam, thank you Sam” style), but what I am really hoping to find is someone who is particularly attracted to the dynamic of this situation and who is willing to spend some time talking to see if everyone gets along and if there is the potential for us to develop this unique and wonderful kind of friendship :)

Happy New Year :)

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