Hey everybody

My name is Jake and I am a 34 year old guy from the Santa Barbara CA area. For many years I have enjoyed assisting woman in taking off the clothes . My kink (if you can call it that) started at age 22. I had never seen a woman naked in person before so I so I paid a lovely person to let me explore their body with my hands . As we were heading to her room, on a wim, I asked if I could help take off her clothes. From then on I always got more turned on by helping women undress then any sexual act.

I'm , wondering if theirs any men who also are undressing aficionados (yea! first time i used that word in my life- lets hope I used it correctly lol) out their. Maybe theirs a cool name for us or network of get togethers ,where people just undress each other and then leave without having sex(once they put their clothes back on of course). I love to help women of all shapes sizes and races get undressed, including those who are trans undress. However, my major fantasy is to help someone over 25 in office attire ( like high heels, skirt pantry hoes ) take that fancy outfit off. Also while I am assisting people disrobe I would love to be able to touch their body gently with my hands. (after checking for consent)

I have a disability that effects my speech and movement ( but most people can understand me after 5 minutes and I can walk up stairs) and it has been hard finding partners. In the past I've have used Backpage and Craigslist to get my needs met but it's getting harder and harder to use those services so I am trying Reddit. People have suggested that I try strip clubs, but I don't think they would take too kindly to my love of helping woman undress . I also thought of going to a Dominatrix, but I think I want something more sensual then what I assume they can provide.

It would be great to meet someone who I could explore this fantasy with and also figure out if theirs a way to compensate people for their time as well. ( I don't think removing items of clothing from someone is illegal but I could be wrong) If your interested in talking more please PM me.

I live in Santa Barbara County am 6/2 230lb's love the Beatles, bad 80's movies and working for social justice. I can host and I travel often around the state.

Have a great night

Jacob

p.s sorry about my typos , i have a learning disability as well. i would ask someone to check this post , but due to it's nature i am a tad bashful