I've had very minor success that's fizzled out so I wanted to make a post to be more clear and hope someone else may be searching for something similar. I know this community is typically for NSA type activities but I'd love to have a real friend or more where we have genuine chemistry and enjoy the company that is non sexual as much as the sexual. I'm not cut out for NSA FWB however I'm still human, with needs, and I'm a very sexual person that would enjoy those needs to be met. I think what was missing with my past connections was doing this with someone who actually cares about me, that component is very valuable.

ME: I have a regular m-f 9-5, I'm an AMC A lister, bonus if you are too! Love all things media, entertainment, pop culture. I have a Disney pass. Enjoy spending time at breweries, happy hours, new restaurants. Enjoy any activity where I get to be in the water (I'm scuba certified). I'm a huge traveler, try to get out of the country a few times a year and in between that do mini weekend getaways when I have enough pto! My friends would describe me as hilarious, empathetic, and unhinged. My life overall is very fulfilling, I'm very happy, nobody is necessarily 'missing' from it, but I'd like to add to it, which is where you would come in.

YOU: CANNOT be married/attached/on and off, any of that, I actually think it's disgusting and pray for all the people out there who have no idea their spouses have secret reddits searching for more. Please be 30 , please send a pic, I think mutual attraction is important, I'm happy to send one too! Please be available! So many times I hit it off with someone and suddenly they have no time to actually meet. Please be willing to put effort into creating a connection, I find all too often I chat with someone here and suddenly I know their entire life story meanwhile they haven't asked a single question about me. I swear the effort will have a great payoff.

TLDR: not just an NSA FWB but a really good friendship based connection that ends with consistent and mutually beneficial encounters.