I hope everyone's is doing well! I’m feeling positive about life and ready to connect with someone who wants to build something together. I've met some cool people on reddit, so here I am again.
A bit about me:
- I love sailing - both dinghies and keelboats - and do a lot of racing.
- Environmental and social justice issues are really important to me.
- I’m a self-taught software engineer with a career I really enjoy.
- I have some nerdy hobbies - big Zelda and Trigun fan, love board games.
- Staying physically and mentally healthy is a priority for me.
I suspect I’m a bit on the spectrum, and although I can mask it well, I communicate differently than most (allistic) people expect and are used to. I say what I mean, try to be direct, and value clear, factual communication to avoid misunderstandings. The double empathy problem speaks a lot to me.
I’m kinky and identify as a sub, my growth largely following this kink identity development model pretty well. How this takes shape in a relationship depends on the vibe and my partner's interest.
I’m looking for someone monogamous late 20s to mid 30s. Happy to swap pics early on, and prefer reddit chat over long messages. I look forward to hearing from you!
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