Hey there, SoCal! 👋 I’m a 24-year-old guy based in the Glendale area, and I’m looking for someone special for a long-term relationship. But since I’m still early in my career, I’m also open to casual if the vibe is right.

A bit about me:

I spend my free time diving into the world of IT (currently studying for certifications) and unwinding with some Valorant or Overwatch. If you’re into gaming or tech, we’ll definitely click! I’m also passionate about photography, graphic design, and color editing, so creativity plays a huge role in my life. For more active hobbies, I love playing badminton and swimming.

I’m the kind of person who really enjoys helping others—whether it’s through offering support, giving advice, or even teaching myself new skills like financial planning to help out wherever I can. Altruism and compassion are core to who I am. I’m deeply caring, loyal to my friends, and I value empathy and connection in my relationships. I might get attached easily, but I’m always rooting for the best in people. Forgiveness comes naturally to me, and I believe in second chances.

As much as I love helping, I’m also taking time to heal from past experiences. I’m looking to balance caring for others with a little more peace and self-care.

What I’m looking for:

I’d love to meet someone who’s driven, passionate, and isn’t afraid of intimacy. A big plus if you’re into gaming or enjoy hitting the gym—I’m always down for a consistent gym partner! I’m also a sucker for emotional vulnerability and communication. If you can be open about your struggles and talk through them, that’s exactly what I’m looking for in a partner.

I’m attracted to those who are self-sufficient, confident, and know who they are. I’m not looking to “complete” someone—I want to build something solid with someone who’s already whole. Fitness is important to me, so if you take care of yourself (no need to be a gym rat, just mindful of your health and well-being), we’ll probably get along great.

Bonus points if you’re a creative type or work in a creative field—I love supporting others in their artistic passions.

Deal breakers:

I’ve had my fair share of past relationships where I’ve had to play the fixer, and that’s something I want to avoid moving forward. If you’re still navigating unresolved issues with exes or tend to stir up drama, I’m probably not the best match. I’m drawn to stability, honesty, and positive energy, so I’m looking for someone who can meet me at that level.

I also speak four languages (English, Mandarin, Cantonese, and Spanish) and have plans to learn Japanese and Korean, so if you share a love for languages or Asian culture, we might hit it off even more!

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to reach out—I’d love to chat and see where things go. 😊