Just wanting to update everyone and ensure we are not missing any opportunities in doing so.

Lately my wife and I have been looking for a way to spice up our intimacy. During vacation she really gets into it with her whole body and knows exactly what to say to get me excited. We often roleplay as she tells me about previous relationships or potential future partners. She often talks about BBC while we are making love and it drives me crazy.

We have talked about he not wearing any underwear under her skirt or maybe even using a toy, maybe some public groping. We are looking to get some lingerie for her but there is such an assortment sometimes it's hard to know where to start (any recs will be appreciated). We have been also looking into maybe streaming but that is a different story.

Recently we tried playing with restraints. We used wrist and ankle straps as he used a toy on her sensitive areas. She was begging and moaning so loud. It was so exciting. We hope to continue to explore. Although we are moving slowly I think it is a good pace for us as we become more comfortable. We are currently searching for more outfits and lingerie to get her to wear whether in the privacy of our home or even out in public.

Him: Raised in a typical Christian Korean-American household. Once he got a little independence he started to explore my sexuality and at time he could not get enough of it. There are many things he wants to explore as he often gets bored of the same thing and wants to try something new. New kinks, fetishes, fantasies to fulfill. A lot of which tend for me to be more submissive.

Her: She has been more vanilla since being married. Previously she is more attracted to POC. She would tell me how she would go to clubs and let some guys grope her on the dance floor, ultimately leading to giving them a BJ on some stair well or restroom by the end of the evening. She is more into the kinks to entertain the husband, knowing how much it arouses him.

kinks: bondage, dom/sub, interracial, hotwife, cuckold, lingerie, oral, hentai, edging, public, exhibition, voyeur, group play, threesome, outfit control, sex toys, gagging, rough play (I am sure I missed a few)

limits/hardpass include gore or scat