Hi there, I’m LilacDewdrops!

As I approach my 30th birthday next month, I’m excited about meeting someone special. I’m a 29-year-old Japanese-American woman from Los Angeles, standing 5’4” with dark brown medium-length hair and round brown eyes. I’m of average weight with three tattoos: a rose on my upper right arm, a small bluebird on my right hand, and a lilac on my inner left forearm.

Living in LA my whole life, I sometimes feel it’s a small island with beautiful people but lacking real connection. Dating here can be challenging, and I often wonder who is really out there for me.

While I’m mostly content on my own, I dream of sharing my life with someone—waking up in their arms, sharing the details of my day, and creating a meaningful relationship.

I lead a smoke-free, drug-free lifestyle and keep drinking to a minimum. I’m not married and have no children. Currently, I work as a babysitter and am considering a career in teaching or writing. I enjoy writing, working on my novel/screenplay, drawing, listening to synthwave, and indulging in 80s/90s films. Coastal drives are a favorite pastime for clearing my mind by the ocean.

Respectful and kind communication is important to me. Please be considerate in our interactions. I value meaningful conversations and am open to transitioning to WhatsApp or traditional texting if we connect well.

Consistency is key for me. I dislike ghosting, so if you lose interest, please let me know. We’re all adults and should communicate openly.

If you’re not emotionally ready for a relationship or commitment, I understand. Please move along. I’m looking for something serious and long-term.

I love “Good morning” and “Goodnight” texts and GIFs, just an FYI ;)

About You:

• Age: 27-37
• Employed and stable
• Seeking a long-term relationship
• Mature, respectful, and single
• Non-smoker, drug-free, and child-free
• Based in Los Angeles or within California
• Open to meeting in person, video calls, phone calls, and texting

Interests:

• Favorite Films: Dogfight (1991), Secret Admirer (1985), Stand By Me (1986), Ghost (1990), Career Opportunities (1991)
• Favorite Songs: “Sunset” by The Midnight, “Summer Eyes” by Coastal

Additional Notes:

• I lead a healthy lifestyle: No soda, minimal alcohol, lots of water, and early meals. I can’t drink like I’m 20 anymore! Haha.
• Politically, I’m somewhere in between. I respect others’ beliefs as long as they don’t harm anyone.
• I’m not religious but respect different beliefs.
• I don’t have pets but am open to those who do.
• I believe in treating others as I’d like to be treated.
• I currently live in Studio City but will move to West Los Angeles (Sawtelle/Lower Brentwood area) in about two weeks.
• I’m seeking a relationship that will lead to marriage and children.

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If you’re a responsible, sane adult looking for a meaningful connection with similar interests and values, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s see if we can build something special together!

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