Hi reddit! It's been a while since I've come back to lurk on this page for connections. I just ended a relationship not too long ago and so I'm seeking a friend (with benefits) type of relationship. So I thought why not post here since I've had success before!

I'm hoping this to be a connection that is more than just physical aspects of a FWB (although of course the fun part is always going to be nice). I'd like this FWB relationship to be a genuine friendship where we're able to lean on each other (not intended to be a pun), share how our day/week has been going, and use each other to destress/decompress.

If interested, here's a little about me:

• I'm a fairly introverted person that's working a very extroverted job
• I recently turned 30
• Korean American
• Can host within the Koreatown neighborhood
• 5' 11", average body type
• able to drive as well - ideally not more than 30 min away (as we know in LA 30 min can be either 30 miles or 5 miles away depending on the direction)
• DDF

Things I like to do for fun:

• play games (currently Dota 2, Honkai Star Rail, and console games)
• golfing (pretty much the only outdoor activity I do)
• watching movies and shows (Korean dramas, anime, etc.)

Who you might ideally be:

• open-minded
• friendly
• can be either introverted or extroverted - as long as we're able to have conversations or don't mind the occasional silences when neither of us might have anything to say
• kink friendly
• disease free - - this is absolutely the most important part - I never have more than 1 partner (for sex or relationships for that matter) at a time, I wouldn't necessarily mind if you do, but I'd like for both of us to be very open and proactive about testing/getting tested - let's keep our privates clean.
• not a serial killer
• preferred ethnicities: Asian (south, southeast, east, etc.) or Latina/Hispanic/Mexican or mixed
• age preference: 21 - 35 - I would like to be able to legally drink with you
• body stats: my only criterion is me being able to pick you up, and ideally someone that is also career-driven or has something that they're passionate about as I take my career pretty seriously and takes up most of my day

NSFW stuff like kinks and stats we can share through DMs. Willing to share my picture once you reach out, hopefully I will get yours in return. More than willing to exchange social media profiles, but not willing to chat anywhere outside of iMessage or Instagram.

I'm an open book! If there's anything you're curious, please feel free and open to ask.

For our first meeting, I typically like to do so within the first week of connecting - it would be in an open and public area where we can match vibes, for you to make sure I'm not catfishing you and lying about my height, and - of course - to prove that you won't become the subject of your favorite unsolved mystery/true crime podcasts.

I know this sub doesn't verify anymore, but I was verified!