Why F4MM? I have always thought a kitchen table poly dynamic with me and two straight guys who are friends, and exclusive with me would be the most ideal situation for my mental health. No it ain't a sexual thing, quite the opposite I want a family, and stability, and support, but I don't want any kids. But I will likely end up in a monogamous situation, because I can be monogamous, but I cannot share my partners. Very aware how this sounds to most men (guys who are not right for me), and that's perfectly okay. I've learned most of the men who are down for this are submissive and into being cucked/humiliated, and I cannot stress enough how massively unattractive that is to me. I am only interested in partners who are 100% Dominant sexually 100% of the time. No switches.

Now to my post:

I've dated a lot of boys and I'm tired of playing mommy. I'm ready for a man - a man who's a good human being: Men go to the dentist. Men put their carts back. Men are good tippers. Men go to therapy. Men embrace emotions. Men communicate openly. Men are considerate and kind.

I deal with anxiety, insecurities, and sensory sensitivities, but I'm generally a happy person. I'm extremely direct and don't subscribe to a lot of dumb shit society has us thinking we need to engage in. I'm average height, very thin, pale, short funky hair, and people tell me I have a nice smile and nice eyes. I'm pretty liberal, non-religious, very honest, passionate, reliable, sarcastic, and I like getting my way. ;)

I like bowling, binge-watching TV shows, and I miss hosting game nights. Night owl, homebody couch potato, but like going for walks. Past and future dog mom, recently developed an allergy to cats. I enjoy having someone to buy little thoughtful treats for. I try to focus on gratitude, mindfulness, and positive thinking - letting go of things beyond my control.

I promise you've never met anyone like me (unless we've talked before, lol), and you will never be bored. I have a beautiful mind, a unique perspective, a foul mouth and a dark sense of humor, with limits. If you're craving constant intellectual stimulation and goofy lightheartedness, I'm your girl. If you're sensitive, insecure, or politically correct we're not gonna mesh well, lol. I'm actively working on becoming more of a badass hippie. Although still far from it because both my parents were hoarders - I want to move more towards a minimalist lifestyle. In all areas of my life, not just stuff. I have dreams of finding someone who wants to live a simple life focused on quality time, connection and relaxing time in nature.

I feel that not eating land animals is the least we can do for the planet's future (and the most impactful). Please be meat-free or actively working towards it. I'm pescatarian, and have been vegan in the past. I've recently learned how brain warping and destructive porn is; I don't like the way men who consume porn treat me. I'm looking for someone who abstains from porn (to clarify: the issue is porn; masturbation is perfectly healthy in moderation)

Due to a sexual dysfunction I am looking for a man who is content without penetration. Definitely a guy who is fixed or has plans to get it done. I'm very much attracted to self-aware masculine men. The kind of man I seek cares for his partner and respects her as an equal, and has a strong genuine desire to caretake for his partner. A man who appreciates the value of honest frequent communication and self-improvement. A kind and patient man who's focused on connecting spiritually and emotionally before anything physical. Despite being extremely anti-circumcision, I am very turned off by foreskin.

If you're curious to learn more, please send me a message. Spare me the hateful messages please. If we move off Reddit it will be via Whatsapp, so please be comfortable with that. I'm ALL about those voice messages. :)

PS: To be clear: If you eat land animals, consume porn, or have foreskin, we're not compatible. I have chat disabled; send me a direct message. Happy to share pictures when I feel ready. Huge plus if you can drive an RV, are sterile, or work remotely. Non-smokers. Make sure to include your age and city in your message. :)