I train my partners to be pleasure slaves - absolute perfection when it comes to satisfying a man's needs, It's something I've done going back decades, and that I enjoy and have a talent for. In short, I keep women in a heightened state of arousal with stimulation and orgasm denial. Of course everyone responds a little differently and that's part of the fun.

I consider myself more of a teacher than a master, although I don’t have any trouble at all flipping that mental switch and taking control and pushing a woman to her limit and taking what I need. While some Doms think they’re supposed to be arrogant assholes to women all the time, that’s not something I’m willing or able to do - I like spending time with women and learning about them, and I really appreciate my students / subs and think they are very special people. I just understand women's desires in a way that most men can't or don't want to.

As to whom I am looking for specifically, it is someone like me who is independent and wants to build a very intimate and productive relationship with a safe partner. I tend to get along with high IQ / gifted types, like middle class professionals who have very dark fantasies - bondage, edging / denial, humiliation, free use, CNC, etc.

I am also a strong believer in the ability of D/s to help people make positive changes in their lives. If you’re looking for someone who can help you figure yourself out and guide you and mentor you, I do really enjoy that and I’ve done it before with impressive results. On the other hand, if you’re just looking for training, I'm always up for that.

If you like what you've read so far, hit that chat button, and after the intros you'll get a photo of me so that you can decide if we're compatible. Then I'd love to hear about some of your past experiences and fantasies plus learn a bit about you as a person in as much detail as you can give me. And if you’re scared or shy, try to pretend you’re someone who isn’t, and do what they would do. I bet you are stronger than you think.