I’m aware we’re already in February, but I couldn’t think of a more fitting title. After being in a bit of a rut, I’m currently in the process of getting my life back on track. I figured it’d be nice to have someone along for the ride as I jump into this new chapter of personal growth. If anything in this post resonates with you, then let’s see where things go.

About Me:

• 5'11" and Korean.
• I’m a SoCal native, but I went to college in the Bay Area.
• I enjoy gaming, writing music, and cooking. I can send you food pics if you want.
• Getting into the gym and dieting aka starving myself, so we can drink water together (jk I'd use my cheat meal for you).
• I used to work at a law firm but left that job because I decided I wanted to pursue a different career path. I'm about to start taking classes to prep for grad school to get a master’s in computer science.
• I used to wear a suit to work almost every day. I was the physical embodiment of stressed, depressed, but well-dressed. Maybe, you're into that. I don't kink shame.
• My ideal lifestyle is DINK (Double Income, No Kids). I’ve never really wanted kids, and I don’t see that changing any time in the near or distant future. I’d much rather adopt a dog or three.
• Transparency is one of the most important qualities a person should have in my opinion. I'm always upfront and candid about my intentions and feelings, and I expect the same from others.

About You:

• Won't propose marriage to me within the first week. Surprisingly, it's happened more than once. You gotta at least wine and dine me first.
• Located within OC or LA. I'm strictly looking for someone local who I can actually meet in person.
• 20-27. It's not really an age thing but more of a maturity thing. If your main priority in life is judging what Becky wore to the last sorority formal or finding someone to buy you booze, then we probably won't get along very well. Conversely, if you go to bed at 8 or 9 every night, we also probably won't get along very well either. Ultimately, it's about being on the same wavelength regardless of age.
• In college, college-educated, or have a legitimate career plan if not pursuing postsecondary education. Ambition and goals are sexy.
• Able to hold a conversation. I'm not expecting a debate on utilitarianism versus deontology in the first few messages, but I'm amazed at how many people lack basic conversation skills. They're like the seagulls from Finding Nemo. Able to understand basic communication but only reply with single word responses. It makes me want to fucking yeet myself off of this planet. All I ask for is effort.
• Do not want kids either.
• Straightforward and transparent as described above.

This is getting way too long, so send me a chat if any of this tickled your pickle. You've already gotten this far, so it would be a net loss to not message me at this point. Channel your inner Shia LaBeouf, and just do it. Don't let your dreams be dreams.