What I see in ordinary, average, mid, basic, etc women is that they're educated but not intelligent, independent but not capable, judgemental but not principled, sexual but not enticing, etc etc. They don't challenge themselves so they never learn or grow. Do you see the same things in the people around you? If so, then its time to move away from the pack.

I'm here in beautiful Beverly Hills - well cold but still beautiful today - looking for a unique physical and mental relationship with an intelligent younger woman who wants to become the main character in her own story and needs some expert guidance to help with that. I would like to train you physically and mentally, and help you move from ordinary or above average to truly exceptional, capable of taking anything she wants from the world.

The way training works is that you push yourself hard, and then as you recover and get stronger and smarter. That's common knowledge and all education and conditioning going back to ancient civilizations is based on that. But the problem is that its extremely hard to motivate yourself and evaluate yourself, which is why people need teachers, trainers, coaches, managers, leaders, etc to get where they need to go, and that's why the best teachers aren't just the smartest, it's the ones that can best motivate and inspire you.

As to what exactly this training looks like, that depends on your interests and talents and goals, but no matter what your focus is, we would also want to work on other things like communication, organization, confidence & presence, etc. Being exceptional is good, but being able to show others that you're exceptional is even better.

When it comes to kink, I'm not sure that labels like BDSM or D/s are quite on target for me, because I'm not someone who gets off on other people's pain or humiliation, and to be honest I think women should be very careful with guys like that. However, I do like to be in control of the sexual relationship - both my pleasure and the other person's - because it's more engaging and heightened for me that way and to take the other person to places they can't get to themselves. We all love talking about sex, so you can ask me about that in chat.

All right, let's wrap this up. You should be over 26yo and healthy, no smoking or drugs, intelligent and educated, or at least intellectually curious, and live in the SoCal area. You should also have a desire to improve and be someone who can follow through on commitments when they are important to you.

Me, well I'm older but still fit, well educated, a writer and published author, project manager, studied in Europe, worked in Asia, traveled to six continents, have wide intellectual interests (art, history, psychology), am confident and a good communicator, principled yet easy to get along with, serious but funny too, and a natural teacher and mentor.

Still here and interested? Perfect - click that chat button and tell me about yourself and what's important to you, and we'll go from there.