About me:
Single, No kids, Never married. Male, 32 year old, 5'11 (on a good day, 5'10 on a bad day), Muscular "Dad Bod" (willing to trade photos) I am full Mexican. If dick size is important to you I am just shy of 7" and I have been told I am "thick"
What I am looking for:
A female sub into CNC, experience level not important as long as you have open mind and curious to learn. IN PERSON, I am okay starting online but it needs lead to in person soon. I definitely prefer a sub with a little attitude so I tend to seek out brats but I do love me a sweet and docile submissive too.
Though I am open to multiple types of dynamics/casual/fwb. What I am idealy looking for is MY sub, who would like a deep and meaningful conneciton who is open to CNC play after building up trust. Hopefully we share at least a few interests/hobbies.
About me as a Dom:
I have been in/out of the lifestyle for almost a decade this point. I have a decent amount of experience as a dom. Though I would say I am far from an expert, there is always more to learn. Not only do I have a good amount of personal experience, I also love to go to classes to learn about others prospectives, such as what is "safe play", negotiations, as well as sitting in on "BDSM 101" to see if there is anything new to learn from a different point of view. And of course classes to see other type of play I have not taken part to see if I would like it and how to do it safely. For those subs with experience yes I know all about SSC, RACK, PRICK, etc.
I am a naturing/caring Dom outside of play. During play I am a very aggressive, take charge, what I say is final word type of Dom. I am into degradation but the level of degradation is totally negotiable and not required if limit for you. As soon as play is over and into the AFTERCARE I am back to being very naturing/caring. The duality has a starker change the harder the play. The harder the play the more I will want to dote and take care of you. Some level of AFTERCARE is required for me as I cannot just play and leave you to take care of yourself.
Top 3 kinks:
CNC, Auralism (sounds, I love sexual sounds. Think moaning, screaming, "smack" of a good spank), and Breeding Play (cream pies, pretending you will get pregnant. I do not have kids and want to keep it that way for now)
Limits:
Scat, Anything Sharp or Pointy(impaling), Needles, Blood, Permeant Damage, Vacuum "Anything", Punching (I have impact toys that probably do more damage than punching, but I just don't like punching)
CNC fantasy I have always wanted fulfilled:
To go for a hike and stalk you like prey from a distance before finally grabbing you from behind and gagging/covering mouth and dragging you into the woods… the rest should be obvious.
P.S. It is the internet, people lie about who they are, so I will require video call for verification at some point before we go too far.
If you made this far wow good on you for reading all that. If you still not interested, I wish you look on whatever you are looking for.
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