We’re a 35F, 37M bi/pan couple looking for something specific. Based in central OC but willing to drive to LA, IE or SD for the right person.

We’re looking for someone to join us for sensual, affectionate, bi-play focused mmf. Ideally, we’d love to make it a recurring thing, so having some friendship chemistry is important.

One thing to note is that we’re a lot less penetration focused than a lot of folks. With a previous FWB, we could spend hours on making out, teasing, nipple play, oral in every configuration, and rimming. We loooove to pamper a partner together. Hopefully we can find the right partner to treat 😉.

About us

• Both very bi

• Both service top-leaning vers, but typically it takes us both a while to feel comfortable bottoming for a new partner. That means PIV with 35F isn’t on the table until we’ve known each other for longer. Doesn’t work for everyone but it hasn’t hampered us too much in the past!

• Both orally fixated 🥰

• 35F is 5’4” and curvy

• 37M is 5’10” and slim

• Test every few months and most recent results are clean!

• Not personally into hotwife or bull/cuck dynamics. Generally we avoid any uneven power dynamics with new partners. The furthest we’d be likely to go is 35F giving /r/gentlefemdom energy, and even then not the first time we hook up.

About you

• Are a bi or pan man aged 30-42.

• Any race/ethnicity

• Enjoy cuddling, making out, and sensual touch with both masc and femme people (i.e. not looking for hetero flexible dudes)

• Are really into receiving and giving oral, and are okay waiting a few sessions for penetration (although 35F may peg you earlier if you ask nicely 😇)

• Ideally you have a silly, mildly nerdy, gentle energy. Most of the guys we connect with match this description

• We tend not to be into really big dudes (including very muscly guys), but personality is more important

• Don’t care a ton what your dick looks like

• Sub-leaning (though see the disclaimer about power dynamics above)

If you’re out there, look forward to connecting! Scheduling may be a bit tough over the holidays but we do generally try to be communicative and proactive about logistics once the vibes seem aligned.