Honestly, I feel batshit insane doing this, but I’d rather put myself out there for who I am and know that I showed up for myself opposed to feeling safe and comfortable and avoiding any potential risk of rejection (spoiler alert: I’m a risk taker y’all!!!!!).

So, basically, I’m looking for love and I’m ready to commit HARD—like Get-Married-In-Vegas-And-Uproot-My-Whole-Life Hard. I know on its face that sounds very unhinged, but I promise you I’ve actually thought long and hard about this and I feel very secure in this desire.

I’m not the type to have wanted a traditional, partnered commitment in the past and I’m certainly not the type to hinge my whole life and personality to a partner. I’ve been single and independent for years now—and happily so, I might add—but it’s like this year a flip switched and I just feel very confidently ready to set roots down and build a future with someone. I’m a very unconventional person and it makes sense that I’d have this very unconventional way of attempting to start this new journey in my (and hopefully “our”) life.

In the past, I have worked fully off grid in the Rocky Mountains as a bartender at a saloon, camping with no service, electricity, running water or insulation, while hanging with grizzly bears, lol. I have worked as a beach photographer on the Gulf Coast, talking pictures and selling keychains in a bikini. I have even worked for a foot fetish company in my college years, which was a WILD RIDE, let me tell you!!!!!!

Little bit about me now: I’m freshly 27 years old. I’m 5’5” and 135lbs. I have strawberry blonde hair. I am bisexual but hetero-leaning. I have tattoos and some piercings. I have an active job and lifestyle but not particularly muscular (I would describe my physique as “feminine” for lack of a better word). I like yoga, reading, animals, painting, history, movies, camping, hiking, gardening, sunshine and all things water!!!! I’m very funny, outgoing, charismatic, down-to-earth and extremely loving. I’m spiritual but do not believe in organized religion—although I’m totally fine with my partner having a different set of religious beliefs, or none at all (spirituality is a plus though). I have a raspy/sultry voice and you’re going to love it, lol. I’m a very sensual person and sex means a lot to me but I’m very open minded as to how a healthy sexual relationship can look. I prefer not to invest too much in the sexuality at first, as it leads to less serious forward movement in finding a lasting partner (in my opinion). I’m alcohol and 420 friendly but I prefer not to smoke or drink very much and hoping you have the same level of attachment to substances as I do.

As for what I’m hoping to find in YOU: I’m looking for someone also active, who might even want to buckle down and take it more seriously by working out with me regularly (5 days a week). As I am hetero-leaning and want children in the future, I am looking for a man at this time. Sense of humor, loyalty, confidence and a good communicator are key qualities I’m looking for in a partner. Hopefully you have a healthy sexual appetite and a willingness to work together. Ideally the perfect partner will be 5’10 or over, in good enough shape, have friends and hobbies/passions, between the ages of 27 and 35, and want children (tattoos and long hair are MAJOR bonuses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!).

I’m willing to relocate, hopefully to the WEST COAST, but open to talking about it. I currently live on the east coast but will be out visiting on the west coast for 2 weeks come July so this would be a perfect opportunity to see how things unfold if you are on the west coast and interested in getting caught up in my whirlwind of love and adventure!!!!!!!!! Please reach out if you’re seriously interested or have any questions for me(:! DO NOT reach out if you are unwilling to send a picture of what you look like within the first few messages.