I'm an older man stuck in a dead, sexless relationship for practical reasons. I haven't been with anyone new in well over ten years, and no one at all in over a year. And since my sex drive is still as strong as it was when I was young, that really sucks. So I'm looking for a woman to use to satisfy my need. We can work out exactly what that means, but know that I'm not interested in hurting you or tying you up like some kind of erotic art piece. Oh, and I'm not mean or an asshole either. I'd rather praise you than punish you and I will respect your boundaries.

For my basics, I'll be completely honest because there's no point in BSing you and then having you tell me to get lost when we meet and I'm not what I said I was. For starters, I'm not a daydream fantasy. I don't have model looks, a gym-toned body, or a horse-sized tool. But neither am I ugly, morbidly obese, or packing a toothpick. I'm a normal, mostly average, 56 year old white man with a dad bod, hazel eyes, dark hair just starting to go salt and pepper and a big bald spot. I'm clean, sane, discreet, disease free with recent negative tests, a non-smoker, and I don't use drugs. I'm in the western end of the IE, in Rancho Cucamonga, near where the 15 and 210 freeways meet. Given my living situation I cannot host, so hopefully you can. I'm open to either a one time thing or something ongoing, and I'm real and serious about this. Hell, for a good match I'd get in my car tonight and come take advantage of you. Just please don't think that means I'm desperate enough to ignore my limits or preferences.

For your part I expect you to be clean, disease free, and biologically female, but I'm old and experienced enough to have learned that being sexy is as much or more about your attitude than the physical stuff so I don't much care about your age, race, or body type. If you're a pro looking for a business transaction or if drugs basically control your life please look elsewhere, I'm not your guy. And if you're a couple, that's fine. I had a few threesomes when I was younger. All I ask is that you respect I'm straight and not looking for direct man-to-man play.

If you choose to respond to this, PLEASE send more than just a word or two. Tell me a little bit about yourself, why you chose to answer my post, and what city you're in or near. We can talk from there and see how it goes.