I've dated a lot of boys, and I'm ready for a man: Men go to the dentist. Men are good tippers. Men go to therapy. Men embrace emotions. Men communicate openly. Men are kind.

I deal with anxiety and insecurities but I'm generally a happy person. I'm thin, pale, short hair, and people tell me I have a nice smile. I'm pretty liberal, non-religious, very honest, passionate, reliable, sarcastic, and I like getting my way. ;) I like binge-watching TV shows and I miss hosting game nights. Night owl, homebody couch potato, but like going for walks. I'm a dog person, but haven't had any pets for many years. I'm a foodie and I love baking/cooking for my partner. I enjoy having someone to buy little thoughtful treats for. I try to focus on gratitude, mindfulness, and positive thinking - letting go of things beyond my control.

I'm actively working on becoming more of a badass hippie. Although still far from it because both my parents were hoarders - I want to move more towards a minimalist lifestyle. In all areas of my life, not just stuff. I have dreams of finding someone who wants to live a simple life focused on quality time and connection.

I feel that not eating land animals is the least we can do for the planet's future (and the most impactful). Please be meat-free or actively working towards it. I've recently learned how brain warping and destructive porn is; I don't like the way men who consume porn treat me. I'm looking for someone who abstains from porn (to clarify: the issue is porn; masturbation is perfectly healthy in moderation)

Due to a sexual dysfunction I am looking for a man who is content without penetration; probably a tall-ish white guy in his 30s. Definitely a guy who is fixed or has plans to get it done. Preferably a guy with a low-average sex drive, at the very least demisexual. The kind of man I seek cares for his partner and respects her as an equal. A man who appreciates the value of honest frequent communication and self-improvement. A kind and patient man who's focused on connecting spiritually and emotionally before anything physical. Despite being extremely anti-circumcision, I am very turned off by foreskin.

If you're curious to learn more, please send me a message. <3

PS: To be clear: If you eat land animals, consume porn, or have foreskin, we're not compatible. I have chat disabled; send me a direct message. Happy to share pictures when I feel ready. Huge plus if you can drive an RV, are sterile, or work remotely. Non-smokers. Make sure to include your age and city in your message. :)