There are a number of things that lead to success in online dating and the following are a few suggestions:

1). Pictures are worth Thousands of Words. If you are able to add a picture (of yourself!) to your post, you will find a much greater level of success.

2). There is a REASON we have a Title Format, and it will cover a lot of bases that many people forget about when they write up "___ Seeks ___" Type Classifieds. If you are going to meet people, they need to know your location, generally like an idea of your age, and need to know what you are looking for.

3). Write SOMETHING WORTHY OF ATTENTION. Unsolicited dick pics do NOT pay off ... especially when you are dealing with people that are seeking Smoking Fetish Kink Connections. If the people in this group wanted "plain" sex with big tits, big dicks, or "general" things that cause sex appeal ... they wouldn't be HERE.

Keep in mind, this is a niche kink ... and those seeking it out are going to be 1,000x more impressed if you have a favorite brand of cigarette or smoking style than they will be if you have the largest cock in South Dakota.

4). "Objectification" has a place, but it is very rare. Try to connect to the PERSON, instead of being hyper-focused on the things the person may do with you. No one likes a radio station that only plays one song.