The following is either fiction, reality, or a blurred line between the two ...

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Being a long term (more than a decade) couple in the Swinging Lifestyle has given us some advantages that most relationships are lacking. To be specific, one advantage is that we can freely and openly discuss turn-ons, kinks, and devilish desires. In fact, when either of us brings up a taboo topic, there is an equal chance that our partner will also be turned on by the thought, or that they will keep their eye out for people that may be able to fulfill that desire.

As examples, this open dialogue has made it very clear that a smoking fetish exists between us, that we both enjoy seeing each other flirt with strangers, and that we have complimentary elements in our sex life that are not mainstream.

This said, we do have a couple of "games" we like to play that have yet to become realities, and one of these "games" is the seduction of a stranger in public.

To explain:

In the scenario, the lady of us is observed by someone and they (the observer) become increasingly obvious in their desires as she either takes a drag of her cigarette, or releases a beautiful exhale to the wind. Whichever of us has seen the watcher, then encourages (or provides) a repeat of the action so they can double-check the activity is truly what drew the attention.

On confirmation this is what caught their eye, either one or both of us would approach the stranger and begin a conversation to let them know we saw them staring, and we found it arousing. From there, if the chemistry exists, we would try to book a motel room with the intention of having them join us for a night of smoking fetish sex.

Maybe this is true, or maybe it's just a way to make the smoking fetish people in the Austin area believe they could have a fantasy realized. We'll never tell.

Here's what we can say though.

If you've got "game" and you see an attractive woman smoking in public, it's okay to pay attention to them or to look their way.

It's NOT ok to blatantly stare or cat call or be an ass or bitch ... but observing with dignity is a different story ... and if all of the above is true, then we may actually come say hello.