I’ve crossdressed in private for years but only recently got the guts to go out in public a few months ago. Of course the next milestone was to see if I could hook up with a guy... I didn’t have much success trying to flirt at bars so I turned to posting free blowjobs on Reddit and that seemed to work well. When the first guy met me and undressed I thought wow, he’s much bigger then me... he was white and must have been 7 inches. Later that same day I was up for another round with someone else and after sorting through the messages and dick pics I got I decided to meet up with this black guy who was quite hung. He was easily 8.5 inches and super thick... I had a hard time sucking him but he eventually came and that was enough for one day. Fast forward a few weeks and I was out again and hungry for cock... posted on Reddit again and got quite a few responses. One guy who sent a pic looked big and super hot and he asked if it was cool if he brought I friend. So of course I said yes! He and his friend show up and we immediately get down to business. What was hilarious was when his friend dropped his boxers ... he was super small and his friend being so big made it look even smaller. I had gotten even more brave this night and wanted to try fucking... I asked if they were down and both were... unfortunately I only had magnum condoms and the smaller of the two had trouble keeping the condom on... his friend and I made fun of him quite a bit. Fast forward again and I’m in Vegas, dressed playing black jack and some guy is giving me bedroom red. I got a little creeped out and left the table and he followed me... he came and asked me if he could buy me a drink and I said OK... about two drinks in and I asked if he wanted to come with me to my room... got to the room and he was about 7 inches... this was my first successful non Reddit assisted hookup. I have him a BJ and went back downstairs for more fun. Didn’t have much more luck so posted on Reddit and to make a long story short hooked up with a few more guys that night. All in all all but that one guy was under 7 inches, and about half of them were over 8 inches.

So... consensus... 7 - 8 is average... anything less is small in my eyes. But the positive thing about the smaller guy was he fucked me first so he got me prepped to take a bigger one which hurt a bit.