Hello everyone, so I’ll begin saying that my sex life is pretty normal! My husband and I have a great relationship. He is always initiating sex, which perfectly fine. I just need to be confident in my and initiate myself. That is his only complaint is that he wishes that I make the first move. I try but I get in my own head. The relationship that I was in before my husband really messed with my head.

I would always initiate and try and make the first move but was always denied. I would dress up and look sexy and nothing. Now I feel like that has a huge part of why I don’t initiate bc of how many times I was denied. How do I move pass this. I do want to initiate but I just feel so awkward and not confident in myself. I know he doesn’t care but I do want to show him that I am trying and I do want him.