me and my gf were in a relationship for 3 years and we were facing lots of financial issues we were living together. She use to not like that we couldnt enjoy our lives and one day I got fed up n told her to go n enjoy it by herself. She wasnt sure about it but later she started meeting her old friends who took her to clubs n all with that shhe use to come late. I sort of knew something wasnt right but decided to stay quite and make things better so that I could go out with her. While working on myself our sex life went from 1-2 times sex per week to as low as once a month or two. In the start she use to complain but later she has stopped complaining about it at all.

Then I got a project in a different city for few months which got extended. Little did i know she was enjoying everythin in my absence. within few months of me being in another city she confessed that she kissed someone, i told her its okay and not to do that ever again. After the project got completed i came back to the city, and we started living back again but one thing that was missing was she was not liking sex and there was no sex at all, i asked her to have sex n she use to make excuses. Later on we talked one on one and she confessed that she had been cheating with different guys throughout the time i wasnt in the city. She had slept with 44 different guys, n it started with a muslm friend (nothing against them, its just a fact and why cause they dont drink which helped them to stay sharp on the other hand my gf drinks a lot) of hers who was very rich, he introduced her to everyone later mostly muslms and foreigners n she has tried all sorts of things. After telling me that she added before meeting me she was with a guy who she would be meeting tonight to have sex this gave me a shock and i was speechless. She was like if u want to leave me then its okay i understand and i fucked it up, I am sorry about it, but i no longer feel sexually attracted to u, though i still love u the same. and she went

later in the morning she was back and when she woke up she asked me to get a contraceptive pill from store, and i did and gave it to her, thats when she asked what do u want. Inside i was not feeling good but also didnt wanna loose her so i said lets make this relationship better. I kissed her she also liked it.

Then begin our whole level of exploring, took me another year to have sex with my own gf but it for sure was never the same. another year later we got married. There are many things that happened throughout the whole thing but a 5 year long relation converted to a marriage n now we are happy but sex life is different and not the same at all.