[Re-posted without a pic of me because rules]

Late Friday night: BJ for a short, fat black guy. He fingered me after and it was just ok. We had sexted for a few weeks beforehand, but the vibes didn’t continue. Most memorable part: he asked if I was actually white mid-blowjob. I wasn’t sure what to make of that and replied that I had lived in Europe in my twenties…

Saturday morning: Doggy style with a thick ginger townie, straight and to the point. Protected. We matched the night before and “he was in the area” and very persistent. I hadn’t gotten all my jollies the previous night, so why not? After he came inside me, he couldn’t get out the door fast enough!

Saturday evening: HJ for a doughy name-dropping nerd. We texted for maybe a week beforehand? I wasn’t attracted to him IRL, but he had driven 45 mins so I tried to make it worth his while. After realizing our connection hadn’t translated to real life, I politely pushed him out the door and remained unsatisfied.

Late Saturday night: A hot shower. Clean sheets. Riding my vibrator into oblivion once again.

Ultimately it was an unsatisfying experience, so I’ve been following my gut more and turning guys down if they can’t hold a worthwhile conversation that’s not about sex. Don’t get me wrong, talking about sex is important, but being able to connect outside of that makes the sex even better, at least for me.

FYI

- I met all of them on Bumble

- It was my first time meeting all of them

- They all came to my place and we hooked up on my bed. I didn’t change the sheets but did change the blankets

- I did not shower in between, but I did clean up (like I always do)

- I never hooked up with any of them again (and won’t)

- They all reached out in various ways afterwards

- I did it because I wanted to get my rocks off…

I’m posting this for attention, so attention is welcome - especially compliments 😉 I’m a recovering fat kid so any and all kind words are appreciated!