Too often, heteronormative sex is the binary of a man being dominant and a woman being submissive or vice versa. And imo, it robs the ability to truly be vulnerable and intimate with each other because it’s more how well can you play this particular role rather than I’m present with you in this moment and we should both be comfortable to say or do whatever to make it the most pleasurable experience possible.

And as a muscular hung man, it’s disappointing to see how much women just crave being dominated without any specification to themselves. Don’t get me wrong, I love being dominant but I recognize I’m asking you to play a part constantly in your submission.

And this is just an outsider perspective but it seems the way that wives and their cuck husbands communicate is such a high level of intimacy that it’s like holy shit. There is so much trust and vulnerability so that both can climax…even if it’s just talking about it. Seems to be a really safe space.

And I think to myself…I couldn’t even trust that I would have a space to be fully unapologetically dominant because there is the assumption of no reciprocity 🙁.

But these hot wives and cucks have full trust. Full trust. Wow.