So heres a story about when I met my first Cougar. Was a couple of years ago, and havent really met any since, but it was a real confirmation of what i knew already. I'm super into older women

A bit about me. I'm a coder, super geeky, love nerdy stuff, but love nights out, gigs etc all of that. Don't really feel that strongly a part of any scene however, bit of everything in my tastes and interests.

Currently in an open relationship with someone my age, and it is really satisfying, and do have a few partners slightly older, but secretly just go wild at the thought of making love to women decades older than me. Since I was young, I've always had a thing for older women. Not really sure how it came about, but it has been a strong theme in my fantasies since I can remember.

Anyways, so we are in a munch, a night where kinky people of all sorts come together to meet others. A wide range of ages. I spot this one woman, fairly open and talkative but quite reserved. No real signals that she's a cougar or anything but pleasant conversations with her throughout the night. I take a fancy to her. Long brown hair, strong NZ accent, and a shapely figure. Something quietly sexy about her. I liked our energy too, felt at ease.

To be honest I can't really remember the conversations we had, but there was a point a few hours in, where I knew I wanted us to fuck. She initially wasn't really down, playfully telling me that she never dated anyone under 35, and I was shit out of luck. But I felt our ease with each other, and just didn't really believe it. There was something too playful in her tone. She wasn't really shooting me down hard, not stern in her refusal. We kept on talking, the tension between us growing. We were also fairly inebriated by this point, I'm sure it helped. The moment that she said, "alright, fuck it, let's go", the air around us changed. We knew at some point in the next couple of hours our clothes would be off and we would be at each other.

The train ride was fairly long, but as soon as we got to hers, we headed to the bedroom. She lives alone and had a really comfortable place. We could be as loud as we wanted without bothering anyone.

There was something just so erotic about having an age gap of over 2 decades over us, expecting it to be like a mature older lady teaching the idea of patience to a younger man, but having the dynamic completely flipped to seeing her being an obedient woman to a much younger man, ready to do exactly what he asks. We set a few ground rules, certain things she didn't want to do, but after that, she was pretty much mine.

Our sex wasn't very Sub/Dom like, I was pretty dominating, really having my way with her, but considering we met at a kink munch, there wasn't many of the power play themes that you find.

She was a foot shorter than me, and I have a fairly strong body, so I had the power to really move her around the bed as I wanted. Later on, she remarked that our sex was quite flexible. I got the feeling some of the positions I put her in she hadn't tried in a while. She was really into it, really enthusiastic about being strongly handled. I put her on all

I remember in the morning we were talking on the sofa in her living room, I was nearly on my way out. We were just talking facing each other about her job, the things that she liked about being a tech manager. She looks me in the eye as we speak, while slowly moving her hands towards my lap and unzips my trousers. I accommodate her, help her take my trousers down, and she readies herself to take me into her mouth. The sexiest thing about it was that I didn't ask, nor did I initiate. Her volition made it all the more erotic. Her mouth isn't very large, so sometimes I felt some teeth, but her lips formed a tight seal so moving them along my shaft was bliss. Working me with her tongue, focusing on my head, she gave me a final orgasm. To go from talking about mundane topics to getting that look - the look that says "hey, stop talking now, cause I'm going to take care of you" - you feel incredibly special that someone wants to pleasure you so eagerly.

I am really eager to really start dating older women now that I am in an open relationship. Its hard finding people in real life, apps are not that fruitful, but this year marks the start of a new change. Let's see what we get up to...