I’ve always been a very laid back person who is easy going. However my personality is pretty direct. Here recently I started talking to a girl at the gym who through a series of conversations basically told me that she wants to be dominated by me. We both have situations that are cause for both of us to be cautious. We have sent Some pictures back and forth etc. I sent her a picture of my cock that she told me she masturbated to. I’ve always been turned on by watching a woman slap her ass and and have her ass slapped and nipples pinched etc. I really want to dive into this carefully. Any advice how I can slowly control her without driving her away?