So my body has changed quite a bit with my gf. I was skinny when we first met (170-180 lbs) and I have gotten much much more muscular (228 lbs) just to be more protective of her so that people wouldn’t instigate situations but also just to feel like I can protect my loved ones because America is honestly, an incredibly violent country and people only back off if they think you can fuck them up.

But with the amount of time I put into workouts and physical activity…I put almost all my pride in my body and secretly has become more and more of a kink. Watching women worship the male physique is really hard to find on Reddit or porn sites. Where it’s the adoration and touching the arms and pecs slowly…that foreplay for a man that is often so ignored.

So I finally admitted to my gf that I know it looks bad that I need to be validated about my body but I need it from you. If she catches me masturbating into her panties (which she loves) she will come and slowly touch my chest. Suck my nipples while rubbing her beautiful tiny feet on my quads and cupping my balls. Then she will tell me just how she loves how big my arms are, how beautiful my pecs are and just constant affirmations as she’s stroking me off. She whispers in my ear “you’re so strong to protect me and you’re so beautiful.”… I lose myself almost instantly and I can’t even think. Then she says can you be a good boy for me and show me how much you want me. I bust almost immediately.

I try to withhold cumming early because I want to hear as much as possible from her. Sometimes she spoons me grabs my ass and strokes my cock also 🤤🤤🤤.

I remember this from season 1 in ozark when Marty was daydreaming about getting stroked off by a prostitute who was telling him he’s a good father and husband.

Often, just honest constant validation from your female partner is everything you need. If she could just touch me every hour telling me how strong I am…that’s amazing. Open up gentlemen. Get the validation you deserve!