I’m a straight male that absolutely adores the female physique but when I see how gay men really worship the male physique in all its forms. Like they love the smell of a man after the gym, they love groping the male body, cum and just truly appreciate a man in a way that a woman never can…makes me sad. Sexuality isn’t a choice and I am not attracted to men whatsoever but the appreciation they give to a man that doesn’t have to be perfectly packaged like it often does with women. And this isn’t to shame women but it’s just like damn. Like solely off of appreciation and vocalizing that appreciation for a male body that gay men do is completely unmatched. At best you’ll get a woman who hints at liking arms, height and overall an intimidating physique but that’s just for her to get penetrated by that man. Like the burden is on men to give amazing perfect slow massages to adore the female physique but how often would a woman naturally want to adore the male body without centering the attraction around penetration or receiving the sexual energy (groping etc). I understand the burden of the patriarchy, rape culture and the male gaze but yea sometimes I look at how gay men talk about the male physique and touch each other….and it’s like wow you really feel worshipped or adored.

Like I look at threads here and messages I’ll get like 🙁🙁🙁 there isn’t any way whatsoever that I would get adoration from a woman that way. Like actually vocalized. Women don’t work for male attraction or worship in terms of just adoring the male body nearly as much as men have to adore the female physique.

And it doesn’t change whether you’re a skinny guy or muscular guy. Only difference is more women would want to be penetrated but the adoration is still lazy.

But I’ve almost never encountered a man that wasn’t trying everything to show appreciation for the male physique for the goal of sex. Like the only women that are more open is based off of hormones or cougars etc etc. I am generalizing massively but like there aren’t threads for the male physique as much as they are for women and the ones that are for men are dominated by gay men appreciating the posting men.

Like I’ve gotten tricked At gloryholes of men pretending to be trans women when I was younger and I was lucky that nothing bad happened but wow Is it possible to replicate that need for men by women. Not a means to an end for penetration,oral sex and protection.

Being straight is frustrating often when it comes to intimacy and feeling worshipped and adored with how much men are burdened with giving to their female counterpart.