My wife and I opened up our marriage about a year ago. We’ve only done extramarital things 3 times: twice with two different couples and once with a married guy who is also in an open marriage.

It turns out it takes a lot of time and effort to find the right people and to work out all of the logistics.

She and I are going away for a night next week. The hotel we are staying at has a bar. There’s a possibility one of the couples we met online may join us for drinks, but it sounds pretty iffy (they have kids).

If that doesn’t work out she and I have discussed whether we’d be up for meeting a random guy at the bar and letting her fool around with him. She’s fairly shy so we both know she’s not likely do it on her own which means I’d help in some way. Fingers crossed something will work out.