When it comes to sex, I’m all about the ladies. I love breasts, eating out a woman’s sweet pussy, cuddling, kissing, foreplay…all of it. And I’m really good at giving oral (according to my partners).

I’m also a pretty normal “cis guy”.

But.

I also have cravings to suck a guys cock, suckling his balls, stroking him and swallowing his hot cum. I’ve done this maybe a dozen times (and apparently I’m quite good at that too. Me and oral fun, I guess. 😉).

But anything else with a guy? Nope. Not into kissing, ass play, having sex, cuddling, etc. I don’t even really enjoy a guy going down on me (I’ve tried a couple times).

I once gave a guy head at an adult theater, while multiple people watched. After he filled my mouth, I sat back in my chair and another guy came over to comment on how hot it looked. He was hard, so I got on my knees for him and gave him a nice long BJ until he gave me his hot load.

Another time I was on my knees servicing a black guy’s very large cock (I’m white), while another guy jerked himself right next to us. As soon as the guy I was blowing gave me his load and pulled out of my mouth, the guy next to us pulled me over to his hard cock and had me start sucking him off.

I almost never touch myself during all of this. In fact, usually I’m completely clothed. Later on I’ll rub one out thinking about the experience and how exciting it was.

I know that part of it is I really get off on the act of giving someone pleasure. Knowing that something I’m doing is giving them this amazing and great feeling…and there is no obligation on their part to reciprocate.

I’ve always wondered where I fall, sexually. I don’t feel like I am gay, because I am more sexually interested in women. I don’t feel really bi, because it seems one would enjoy sex with the same gender in those cases…and I don’t.

Maybe I’m bi-adjacent?

Or maybe labels are just too restrictive and reductive, to adequately describe people. 🤷‍♂️

Is this really that weird or uncommon, or is it just one of the many facets of human sexuality?