TLDR: A homewrecker is trying to chase my partner, and it turns me on to see how far she goes.

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A little context first. After coming home from work the other day, my (29f) nesting partner (26m) told me that he thinks that there's a girl at his work (funny enough he works in a different kitchen) that's trying to flirt with him and he wanted to make sure that he wasn't getting mixed signals. And I swear, I don't know how this guy doesn't know. She was so obviously flirting with him it was painful. But, after confirming this, he didn't talk about it the rest of the night. The next day though, he brought it up again. He told me he'd asked around a little bit at his work and it turns out she has a thing for married men and, funny enough, gingers.

Now to the confession: I kinda want her to try. The prospect of telling him to let her keep trying is astoundingly more appealing. And the idea of walking in on them just about to start something is more arousing than I honestly thought. He and I are polyamorous and despite the fact that he really isn't looking for more partners, but he finds this slightly arousing too. And I can't help imagining just how far she's willing to take it with him. The thought of him finding another partner is kinda hot too, in the whole "what if she's into me too?" kinda way ^.^"

I know this is weird, and kinda mean, So please don't come up in here telling me I'm a horrible person cuz trust me, I get enough of that already. But still, I just can't help feeling like this.