Over the past few months I’ve learned that I’m (31M) super into ass play and my partner has no idea… it started with the occasional finger while stroking myself but I kept wanting more…

Recently I bought a small vibrator and whenever she leaves the house I fuck my ass with it and watch myself in the mirror - I swear I’ve never made myself cum so hard in my life! I can’t help but want to share this dirty little secret with people though! (see other posts)

I keep fantasising about having a girl suck me while toying my ass or rimming me!

My partner is quite shy so I’m caught between telling her or finding a slutty fwb to make my dream come true!

What should I do?