I'm aware this will get hate. I get it and I understand. Some people in the community since New Years Eve have come down on me pretty hard (not to my face, but behind my back. Typical.)

A little background on me. I'm a 48 year old single mother of one (my son, 23). My passions include great music, photography, art, fine dining, fashion, keeping my body looking it's best (the amount of money I spend on upkeep would make your head spin). But I love my life. I was in an unhappy marriage for years and divorcing my ex was in the top five best choices I've ever made. It's amazing how much a ten inch dildo and a magic wand can provide companionship, lol.

I've gone through a very transformative and awakening time over the last year and this involves a very unique friendship I've developed with my son's girlfriend. She's a tattooed, stunning black haired baddie who - if we'd met in high school - would have been best friends. It sounds fucking crazy and I guess it is, but if you comb through some of my history you'll see that our friendship has evolved to kink. I've been in the kink world in my city for a while. My biggest passion, above all else is great sex. And I fuck like a pornstar. I'm so good at it. A younger lover recently told me I'm a "throat goat", hahaha. Love it. Every girl should know how to give her man the wettest, sloppiest blowjob everrrr.

Her and I have had threesomes with men. I know and am fully ware this has put my son in very challenging positions. But for better or worse, I make decisions as close to the moment as I can from a place of truth and empowerment and the most successful, happy people - believe it or not, are the ones who can follow their desires with and accept the consequences along the way. I'm not someone to sit back and let life go by. Her and I had a crazy connection off the bat and we've experienced some of the most hilarious nights together and most off the wall, mind-blowing sexual experiences.

Through this, my son has gone through his own journey. Her and I made the decision months ago to be transparent with him. It's important to note I raised him with very open lines of communication, taught him all about the female experience, culture and a lot of sex talk. He's now fully aware of my involvement in the kink community. Where things get controversial is, I want him to understand the world that's out there. I know he's on the submissive side. Even if he doesn't fully grasp it yet (though he's made incredible strides) and so leading up to New Years Eve, I was invited to bring a plus one to an incredible new sex club that's just opened downtown (I'm going back in two weeks and trying to get him to come again, if you want to give him some encouragement, I'll give you his username, haha).

Btw, I'm always open to any questions you might have. It's impossible to give you full context in such a short space. But I took him out to dinner at Ruth's Chris and asked him to come with me. He agreed.

It was a crazy night.

I really wanted him to meet my friends in the community, people that have meant so much to me on my journey. It was invite only, so a sea of beautiful, slutty kings and queens. I think he felt a little (or a lot) nervous and out of place, but I introduced him to my people.

By 12:30, my tits were proudly on display on the dancefloor and he was bringing me vodka sodas and margaritas, haha. It's getting a little long, so I'm going to cap it for now. But just know that anything is possible. Any bond. Any situation. Pushing boundaries when done right can be an amazing thing.