My first experience with another girl came while I was playing on my college volleyball team.  I was usually rooming with two other girls that introduced me to it.  It may not have been 100% consensual at first, but the more it happened the more I got into it.  They were both upper classman and I was the new girl on the team.  Some things we did they called ritual, or hazing.  Most of the time that meant me doing things to them, for them and in front of them.  At first it was something I had to do but it became something I wanted to do.  I’d often get into their beds with them seeking it out.  I’ve never shared this with my husband but it’s something I do still think about.