Okay this is more a rant than a slutty confession but where the fuck are the selfless lovers/fwb/men??

Had an encounter last week which was “fine” nice dick, knew how to use it and such but EVERY SINGLE time I just have to rub my clit myself to get off.. a 30 sec lick of my clit or a 1 min finger banging until men think okay MY TURN..

I absolutely love pleasing men, let me suck your cock, give you a HJ and fuck me silly but I am so sick and tired that a 30 sec attention should warrant ALL of his pleasures because he didn’t think he was selfish🤦🏼‍♀️

Thinking of giving up on fucking and just doing it myself because I have to do it myself anyways..

Okay so due to the reactions and everything let’s modify this and clarify! I am NOT in no way blaming ALL men, this is personal experience that I rant about. Also it is NOT possible to pick a persons sexual capability on personality. They were all great, kind, funny, enthusiastic etc. I am not blaming a whole sex on my experiences but don’t forget for a man to get off he needs only 1 set of holes to pound, for MOST woman we need more to get there☺️..

Another edit - I absolutely did not think the post would gain so much traction.. I can’t reply to everyone, sorry😅