I once slept with a friend‘s boyfriend. It was stupid to do it and of course I deserved all the hate I got from her afterwards. It happened on a holiday where some of us came together to have some drinks and a fun time. We used to have a few drinks too much, lost control of the situation and secretly ended up having sex in the friend’s bedroom while the others went outside.

All the hate and trouble I had because of this afterwards tought me that I never ever want to sleep with a taken guy again. In this case it was even worse since the guy‘s girlfriend was a friend of mine, but however.

Now don‘t get me wrong, I don‘t want to judge anyone and in fact, I still often think about it myself and I like the fantasy of a taken or even married man risking a big part of his life just for me…but I think that‘s just hilarious. I notice so many men that risk all the good things of their relationship or even marriage just to look after me or who are texting me. Just for the hope of me giving them that one time they want. Even though they have someone at home waiting for them.

Never will I risk such an argument with another girl again by sleeping woth their boyfriend/husband. I love the fantasy. Spending thoughts on it. Even texting with some, seeing how they are so desperate to do this. But I don‘t get it. Y‘all are so wrong for this. But I love it. It gives me a rush. And the only one having to fear bad consequences is you. I love y‘all for that!