So, for a back story prior to getting with my husband I hadn’t been with a white guy, I was always … like “popular” with the black guys in my area so I ended up dating them pretty exclusively my whole life. I got into a bad relationship that had some physical abuse and left, and met my now husband. He was like a safer alternative and made me feel comfortable.

The problem is, I have and have always had a really high sex drive. My husband A. Does not, and B. Even when he does try, it doesn’t work for me. He has a lot of other great qualities but I’m finding myself regularly cheating on him with my exes, random guys I meet and we vibe or whatever the case is, and now I’m stuck trying to leave my husband because I want good sex. I don’t really love him anymore or at least I dont feel it, I don’t know what I should do.