Since I [37M] turned 30, and after a long-term serious relationship ended, I've been sleeping with multiple older women. Some of them have been 8, 10, 15, 17 and even (I think) 20 years older than me. I'm in NYC, so the range of backgrounds were very diverse. Some were fully divorced, some separated, some still married with their husband but totally non-physical and staying for practical reasons. All those experiences are the best.

• They know what they want
• They'll ask for what they want
• They are very independent, so they have their own place, own money, career, families, lives
• They have clear communication
• They have experience and feel comfortable with their bodies
• If they haven't experienced what they want, they'll probably will be open to try it with you
• All their confidence is sexy as fuck

If anyone wants individual stories — the french mom, the writer, the gym eastern european from AM — let me know, and I'll write another post. Also if anyone wants feedback or more.