Paying for intimacy is ok :)

I was a 28 year old virgin guy and was visiting a foreign country for work and I do earn well.

I am in process of getting in shape but lacked the experience and frankly the courage to even approach a woman due to own body shame and lack of confidence etc.

My friends were all married & experienced people who frequently used such services when their wives weren't with them.

I went to such a place extremely nervous but the kind East Asian lady I was with made me feel confident in my own body and was even able to perform adequately considering it was my first time.

I genuinely had great fun and pleasure with her.

To guys who have my physique and an avg penis (4 to 5 inches), don't let that get you down and don't underestimate how confident you can feel when you are naked and in the warm sensual embrace of a beautiful woman, even its her profession.

This is about your happiness, self confidence, pleasure, and even a learning lesson of a sort to become confident and be better prepared for intimate life with future partner/spouse.

Only do ensure the use of condoms at all times.